Thinking of separating, splitting up or divorcing - But you can’t make that decision either for or against? Trying to get over a separation or divorce but cant ?

 …then you need to read this…

 

Marriage, Separation or Divorce -
Which Is The Right One For You?

 

Are you thinking of getting a divorce or seperating but cant decide to do it?

 Are you currently in the process of getting a divorce but cannot deal with the guilt, stress, fear and frustration?

Are you plagued by indecision when it comes to making up your mind about your relationship?

 Do you constantly think “should I stay in this relationship or should I leave?”

Maybe you want to save your marriage but your partner wants out? What should you do?

In a moment i will show you how to make a decision that works for you!

 From the desk of James Tenor
Ontario, Toronto June 9 2006 3:15 am

Dear friend,

 My name is James Tenor, a few months ago i was faced wirth a fearful decision- i was in a marraige that had lost its sizzle and i found myself just going through the motions! So i had to decide whether to stay in my marriage or get a divorce! A life changing and tough decision for most of us, i mean lets face it...

Making a decision about marriage or divorce is a very tricky one! And even when made it is not often a clean or quick decision!

 Sometimes you may have been with someone for years...and you might feel guilty for bailing out on them!

 Other times, you might be in the middle of a loveless boring marriage, but you have been safe and secure in that relationship for years.

 The fact is, you are scared of going out and being alone.  The world after all is a cold and dangerous place for the broken hearted!

 Like most, if you are thinking of leaving your current relationship, you probably worry about "Am I ever going to meet anyone else?" or "Will I grow old alone?".  Maybe you are scared of not making ends meet, you are scared of divorce lawyers, you are sacred of the unknown…it becomes an issue of “if I do and if I don’t.” Fear paralyzes you. And you don’t know if you should make the decision or not, what will your friend’s say? What will you family say? What will society say? 

"The worst thing is is that you feel like a failure"

  

Maybe you are in an abusive relationship but still can’t make that decision to leave or not, due to fear, a lack of self confidence and guilt.

 

“Saving Your Marriage?”

 

Maybe you really love being married and you love your spouse, you want to save it and you don’t want to leave, but your partner is less than perfect! Perhaps you are bored of the sex or you think your spouse is boring or you think he or she is too fat, maybe you are unsure of what he future holds. 

 Are you scared of having “the same old same old”?....…but you can’t decide…..should  you stay or leave? You could stay and still make it work! 

 If It is your desire then anything is possible!

 Here is a story you might be able to relate too

I was in that situation once, I had a great relationship that lasted 10 years, she was a fabulous woman, beautiful, sexy and smart!  She was kind to me, compassionate and caring and very loving but I got dissatisfied,  I got unhappy and I did not know what to do…

 My options were:  if I stayed I would be unhappy, I would be taking away from her and me, but if I left I would lose all the love, security and friendship we have created all through the years… I would be devastating her by leaving, I would lose all the years we spent, what would the family think? After all they were wonderful people.  Can I make it on my own? Will she be ok? Will she find another that will make her happy! I looked at her differently than when I first met her!

 I loved her so much- still do! But I don’t know if could live with her, I did not even know if I was in love with her! I was dissatisfied! But I felt obligated to her, I felt guilt- I wanted my freedom but not at her expense!

 What could I do, I did not know what to say or do! When I made one choice I felt regret, if I stayed I felt dissatisfied!

 I was going insane! I tried all those “fix your marriage books” and those “get a clean divorce”,

 I used counseling, and I tried hypnosis… they all would work temporarily and then the dissatisfaction would happen again… the war in my head would come to life full force.

 I went through this for a while and I wanted to explode,

 “I Just Could Not Make A Decision That Was Right For Me….! And In The Process I Was Hurting A Lot Of People”

 That is until I traveled to China on a business trip, where I met an elderly monk at a monastery, who had studied ancient mystics in the east and I told him my problem-(all this in Mandarin with a guide I had hired).

 I never spoke to strangers that openly before, but he had an open and warm face and I felt myself opening up to him without warning.

 He asked me what my problem was, I said

 “I can’t make a decision in my relationship...can you help?”...He said sure

 “Have you a few minutes”, I said yes.

 He then said...“are you willing to share all your feelings and thoughts”

 I sad “yes”...

 Then we began. In 20 minutes I was clear, I felt bold, I felt in control of my life, I felt I could take on the world, I felt power, confidence and I knew what my decision was and  I held it without fear, doubt or regret!

 ...this simple exercise this stranger showed me had cleared my mind completely, I felt calm and at peace. There was no guilt, no fear, no worry, no stress-it was all gone! I felt a beautiful bliss that I had never experienced before!

 

 “This Is For You If You Are Feeling Guilt, Fear And Worry About Your Relationship!”

 Are you having trouble making a decision to leave or stay or are you suffering from regret from a decision you have already made?

  Well this is for you then! Pay attention, because what I have to share with you, will completely change your life, give you peace of mind and make you happy no matter your current situation….I am talking about having inner peace and happiness, that no amount of money or pleasure can buy!

 What I felt from this simple exercise the man taught me - was truly unbelievable, I thought to my self, that this is something that a lot of people could benefit from.

 Listen, if you are unhappy in a marriage and you want out but are sacred of the unknown, if you have already made the decision to divorce but are feeling alone and scared, guilty with some regret! 

 If you want to save your marriage but are not sure you can- you need to try this system out!

 Then pay attention because this secret will allow you to make a final and fulfilling decision now... to

 

“End All Grief, All Fear, All Worry, All Indecisiveness And To End All Stress Associated With Divorce Or Staying In A Marriage Almost Instantly!”

 

Listen, when it comes to a divorce or a separation, logic and love usually conflict, because logic tells you that a divorce is not the right thing to do, I mean when you factor the

1        Number of years spent with your present companion

2        The money to be spent and lost on a divorce

3        When you factor what society and family will say about the divorcee

4        When you factor that you are really moving to the unknown

5        When you still love your spouse but you are unsure 

You measure all this with a few common elements responsible for divorce, such as a new love, breaking away from an unfulfilling marriage! And it makes no sense?

 And you think “is it right to exchange logic with true love?” Is it right to exchange “unhappiness for happiness at the expense of a lost marriage?” And the opposite is true as well.

 The fact is, if you are unhappy in one relationship chances are that you will be unhappy in the next relationship!

 True happiness comes from within not from outside.  This system allows you to find that inner center- your true self - simply by quieting your mind!

 When you quiet your mind, you will be able to make decisions based on what is good for you and no one else, all those doubts, fears and conflicting thoughts will be gone!

 

“In As Much Time As It Takes To Snap A Finger These Doubts And Fears Will Be All Gone!”

 

Washed away!-all the guilt and all the indecisive behavior and allows you to make a decision that will make you happy!

 Whatever decision you are going to make or have made you will be happy with the decision! You will be able to move on without guilt, remorse, without frustration or stress! You will also be able to share this with your spouse so that you both feel this inner peace and in turn it will be a much easier split.  On the other hand if you choose to make it work again it will give you inner piece and most definitely share it with your spouse so that you both feel the inner happiness and piece!

“You Will Be Able To Live Your Life To The Fullest!”

 

How does this all work?

 I will show you a super effective and instant method of releasing all those clouded emotions, thoughts and feelings that come with a relationship.

 This will allow you to regain all the power, energy and power you have within. You will let go of all the suppressed programs and beliefs you have about having a successful relationship or about getting a divorce!

 Whatever choice you make or want to make this natural system of letting thoughts go will help you make a decision that is devoid of fear, regret of guilt either for or against a divorce.

 This is not hypnosis or Zen training, this is a simple (“takes a couple of minutes”) approach that allows you to let go of all your confusing and frustrating thoughts and emotions effortlessly…you don’t need any equipment, you don’t need to do anything, all you have to do is use this simple technique and bam you are set free of all your fears, doubts and regrets…and you can even use it as you drive your car to work, on the phone, anytime and any place!

 “Why Cant You Decide”

 It is that simple…right now, you are having a hard time making a decision because you are being flooded with a tirade of emotions, feelings and thoughts- that you have no real control over. These thoughts bounce you back and forth…they give you reasons to leave and then second later reasons not to leave! You are utterly and uncontrollably confused!

 In turn you are feeling guilt, fear, stress , you feel down and confused- this stops you from making a decision that is good for you!

 The mind frankly is dangerous, it is mad, if I asked you right now to write down all your thoughts as they came by, you would see how “crazy” the mind is. This “crazy mind” is what is causing your fears, worry, frustrations and stress regarding the decision you want to make.

 So the solution is to quiet the mind, then and only then will the right decision be made! 

 This system works for all relationship situations like:

 “What if you want to save your marriage” or “what if I have already made a decision and

you are having a hard time coping with that decision?”

 And what if you are floating from one lover to your spouse and you can’t make a decision

 This system will help,- It is designed to wipe out all feelings, thoughts with regard to staying in a marriage, saving a marriage or leaving a relationship...whatever your situation might be-if you are in a relationship or just left one-you need to get this amazing decision making system now!

“It Will Give You Peace Of Mind, Remove Stress And Allow You To Move On With Your Life!!”

 

And maybe you have already filed for divorce and you are having a hard time dealing with the stress and emotions that come with it...

 Maybe you are the one who has been left and are grieving!

 The pressure is on, you feel depressed, you feel unworthy, and you feel insecure. You keep asking what I did wrong.

 “Why did this happen to me;  Was I not loving enough? Am I ugly?  Am I too fat?  Am I too old? Where did I go wrong?”

 Thoughts like these roam through your head…making you crazy…you feel like saying

 “Someone, Please Help Me – I Just Want To Explode”

Well now you can get rid of all those fears, guilt, insecurities and stress and finally be free, confident, happy and even better off than when you came into the relationship!

 If you are feeling indecisive about your relationship, or if you  have already decided on the fate of your relationship but are having a hard time letting go of your guilt, fears and worries- then this is for you…

 Because what I am about to share with you will change your life forever…

 Here is what you will discover in the “say yes” to divorce manual”

 

1        It will allow you to make the right decision for you

2        Eliminate doubt, fear, confusion , make issues super clear and allow you to come out making a decision that is not only  good for you but your spouse too.

3        How to get an amicable divorce

4        You will no longer feel insecure about yourself

5        You will Feel abundance, even if you are left emotionally and financially broke

6        Release all your fears, doubts, worries and pains.

7        Stop fights between you and your spouse!

Ok, I know this sounds like magic, but it is the truth, this stuff works so fast and so easy to erase guilt, thoughts and emotions from your mind, it is like having the effects of 1-2 hours of meditation in just seconds! it allows you to make a decision that is good for you.

 Imagine feeing blissful, peaceful and not worrying about the outcome of your divorce or not worrying about how to fix a relationship! Imagine taking a load of your shoulders and not being bothered by any outcome of your decision with regards to you relationship!

 What would it all be worth to you?

 I put all that I learnt from this monk, into a powerful new manual that you can use in a few short minutes to make a decision that is good for you and at the same time eliminate fear, stress, worry and guilt forever from your life!

 I called it the say “yes” to divorce manual because it helps you to make a decision for or against divorce (saving your marriage) 

So How much?

At this point I'm sure you're asking the logical question: How much?

Well, six weeks ago, when I put several of my clients through a portion of the say “yes” to divorce system™ , I asked them how much they thought I should charge. And do you know what they said? They said $1,000.00, minimum.

Naturally, they felt this way because I didn't pop the question until AFTER they had used the system themselves and they were in a peaceful, stress free –non worry state from doing the simple exercises in the manual.

You, on the other hand, probably can't even imagine how powerful these exercises are. You may tend to doubt what I have written. You may think it's all a bunch of hype.

Well, think again.

What I have described to you in this letter, my experiences of erasing my doubts, fears and getting energy and well-being (as well as that of my students) it will, in my opinion, happen to you too. In fact, I'm so sure of it that I'm willing to let you in on this program at a special introductory amount.

Instead of asking you to part with a thousand bucks, as my students suggested, I'm only going to ask for a fraction of that amount.

So here this: Over the next day or two, those who take a step forward and order the say “yes” to divorce/speration or saving marriage kit will get it for the incredibly low amount of $199.00 plus $20 S&H U.S (foreign orders pay more for International Express).

Now, I realize that some of you may be thinking, "$199.00 is outrageous."

And to those who say this I reply: "Okay, you fly to the east, find a teacher of this system (GOOD LUCK), who will be gracious enough to show it to you (ZERO chance of that happening), ask him to tailor it to your divorce problems, then have it translated, edit it into English, then go to the immense trouble of bringing it back to America. Then total up your expenditures and you'll be looking at an upfront cost of tens of thousands of dollars. Not to mention your time.

Listen a divorce can run you thousands of dollars, it can cause you enough frustration, depression, stress from emotional and financial issues!

What I am offering you is a way to erase these frustrations, stress and worries, so you will be able to make a decision that works for you, without looking back, without regret! Without saying “if only I had” and “did I make the right decision”

Life is short- if you want to get a divorce get it! If you want to stay in relationship –stay in it! But just make sure the decision you made is good for you and is not based on fear, worry or guilt!

Because making a decision based on guilt or on what family or society expects is a death sentence in itself, a death sentence for a life of misery, anger, pain and indecision! And not making a decision is a decision by itself, a wishy washy kind of decision!

What I am offering you is a way to make a decision that is good for you, whiles eliminating stress, frustration, confusing thoughts and pains!

After All What is it all worth to you?

What would it be worth to you, if in a few short minutes you could make a decision that makes you happy for the rest of your life?

 

What is it worth to you if you could make a no lose decision and feel great about the outcome of any decision you make

What is it worth to you for a peaceful amicable divorce- if you are already in a divorce settlement!

What is it worth to you for peace of mind, a life with no guilt, no hardship , no worry, no stress, no worry about the decision you made!

How much is all that worth to you? How much is “no stress” worth to you?

Even if you were able to get an instant of “no stress” Or “worry”, I would imagine that alone would be priceless, but now you get a chance to completely erase worry, fear , stress completely from your mind with regards to your relationship!

Now let me get even more to the point: The “yes” to divorce course™ is the ONLY system I have EVER seen that is specifically designed with your relationship,, well-being and longevity in mind.

There are many programs out there, that show you ways to save your marriage or how to get a speedy divorce!

This is all great and dandy if you already know what you want! And for all you know maybe it is in your best interest to get a divorce or to stay married, either way -you and only you will know what is good for you.

Don’t let society, family, friends make a decision for you, don’t let your thoughts control you; you need to make a decision that is right for you and only you! After all it is your life- no one else’s-and this is exactly what this course does for you!

Here is what you have to do to get your very own copy of the “say yes” to divorce course

Grab your credit card and click the buy it now button below , it will cost you just $199.99 plus shipping and handling, there is a rush ship option available for an extra $5. that is all there is to it, we accept Visa, Master Card, Amex, and Discover card…and once we get your order we will rush ship your Divorce manual to you via first class mail…so in just a few short days you can have the information needed to give you peace of mind, release stress give you happiness and a stress free life in just a few short minutes...

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P.S. Typically I like to give away special bonuses with an order of this size. But the say “yes” to divorce manual is a different animal altogether. Use this program just one time and you'll know why the Chinese monks are perhaps the least stressed people you can find, add to that fact is that they believe these exercises extend your life, remove stress, give you peace of mind and give you radiant health. You don’t need to have any other books on how to fix your marriage because this does it all for you!

Your friend
James Tenor